Scheana shayman, Brook DavisSlavery talks about what led him to having an affair While she was pregnant with their daughter.
Friday, July 25, during episodes This “scheananigans” podcastDavis joined as a guest to answer burning questions about his disbelief his wife revealed in her memoir, My right sideIn the area
“I just didn’t know what to do (to become a dad again). I didn’t know how to deal with it at all. In essence, I always channeled to the worst version of myself,” explained Davis, the 34 -year -old. “I was afraid to be older again. I believed what I was reading. I believed I was a bad dad.”
40 -year -old this suggested that Davis was “self -corrected” During his alienation From older children in the winter and Eli, with whom he shares with his ex -wife.
“It was just an example of how I just channeled up and be a version of myself, wasn’t it?” Davis replied. “Only years later, I really think about it. It is not good if it was even the answer, because it was just me – again – I blame other reasons that have not come across myself. So I’m sorry I even said it.”
This surprised Bravo fans when she discovered this month in the memoir that her current husband was cheating on before their daughter was born, now 4th, talking to US Weekly In the exclusive cover story, this one said there was Moments she felt confident About disclosure with the case.
“But I prefer this by my words, because unfortunately another person was involved in this situation, and she could come up at any time,” she shared. “If there had been no kids or, to be honest, I would have learned when he did it … 100 percent, no doubt I would have gone. I have always been a man who said, ‘If I was ever cheating, I would go. “
Davis, for his part, explained how marrying a public person allowed him to be “responsible” for his mistakes. “If something, it may have made me a better version of myself, because it has really forced me to hold on to being a better person,” he continued on Friday, adding that without responsibility “I would probably do the same stupid things, blaming other people for the same reasons.”
In addition to answering this question about the case, Davis issued a report to those who criticized his wife’s decision Open for obstacles their marriage.
“I apologize to you, my love. And for everyone else there, you, to be honest, have to leave.” I will fight for my wife until the end of the day. So, if someone has problems with this, they should not come and attack her. They should come to me. “
Davis also destroyed the involved women involved in the “burden”, adding, “Like if you are leaning with me, you have no self -worth. If you leave, you can’t hold a man. Then there is another woman. I believe that I am in the way that I am, I am a problem here.
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Why did Brooks do this?

“This is not an excuse. I want to give a greater context, because when learning, developing and working on myself, is definitely part of me, which is principled is my core. This is how I developed from 20 years, from 30 years, and it was from my youth,” Davis explained. “Without making it an excuse, I came to 15 different schools within 12 years of education. It really created that desire to achieve this desire to find my value to achieve things and things I did.”
Davis said instability ”created this egomaniac“In her.
“I needed to find my value in my achievements. I easily separated from many emotions. I reduced many of my destructive qualities. I just shrugged from the consequences,” he noted. “Looking back now, I can understand where there is a serious problem. Only when I wasn’t open to know more about where I realized I was part of this problem. I can change it.”
What was the amount of affair – and how did it end?
“It was a sexual thing. There was no dating. There was no court. It was just this meeting and then we had sex. It happened several times in three weeks,” Davis recalled. “I felt terrible about it. I was like, ‘It’s not ok. I don’t. “I pulled the pin and then I forgot it.
Why did he wait to tell Shean?

According to Davis, he could only forget about his indecision a year later.
“I just protected myself. I was an absolute coward. I didn’t think about protecting you. I just thought about protecting myself and saving face. Returning to what I did, I would just reduce my actions and separate it and put it in the box,” he said. “But in this situation, I wrote it in a letter and then tried to forget about it. I believe I never intended to do it again and we could just move it. I just saved my face. At the end of the day it was selfish. It was self -preservation tactics.”
This one asked Davis, or some of the sweet things he did for her during her pregnancy, reflected his guilt of the thing he replied, “When I decided to move from it, I didn’t think about it. We were golden. Only after the baby I ran to my friends. It didn’t change what I was with you.”
What role did Scandoval play in the broccoli that came to the pure?
Do told Sham about his mistake after Tom Sandov was subjected to fraud Ariana Madix With their Costari Rashel’s Rakel Levisbut Vanderpump rules The scandal was “Fire on the Flame”. However, other factors made Davis come up.
“The pressure I felt when I was in San Diego and writing this letter (caused it),” he added. “I remember I wrote a letter and just carry it with me. It just got bigger, bigger and bigger every day.”
Did Brock become emotional at their wedding?

“This was the happiest day in my life, dear. It is a psychotic part of me, where I had that ability to just forget it. I just moved to my life until the damage that came from it appeared back,” he told Shaya. “I remember our wedding, and the words that came out were just pure emotion.”
Davis continued, “If anyone wants to look at my brain scan, there is evidence that I do not do too much other thinking except emotions. I’m very emotional with things. It’s interesting because I don’t have that emotion depth, but I have emotions. So no, I was usually just in love that day.”
Were Brock’s concern that the involvement shared it in public?
Davis made it clear that his mistake was this “story to tell” if she chose, adding, “There was a version in which I tried to reduce it and protect our relationship, I support you. I read it when you wrote my book because I didn’t want it to be influenced by the book.”
What lessons did it learn from it?

“I’ve learned two lessons. One was from my current wife. Then, recently, I learned another lesson from my former. In a relationship when you need a place, they don’t have to ask for it. You should give them just a place. When they need your support, you boarding,” he noted. “It’s also about recognition when you have done someone wrong. When you have ego is a problem. I’m a problem and I’m taking care of it.”
Davis continued the promise of chaey on the air.
“I’ll continue to appear. I will continue to do the job. I will continue to be honest and build the foundation for our honesty family. I want to be a living example of what a person can be after he shows his worst parts of himself,” he added. “That’s what I want to be for you, summer and two older children. Everyone else who has made mistakes.”